Category Archives: Moving forward in difficult times

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What’s up with the harder lessons?

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G – life can be hard at times and lessons very testing.  It sometimes feel like those living positively filled with love have the harder lessons than those choosing the other path.  Is this true?

The depth of your feeling my dear is in accordance to the wondrousness of your soul.  If your spirit has lived many, many times you feel more intensely. It is often said that the ancient ones have the most difficult lives because they feel all of it with the intensity of the first experience.

They feel the depth of every bit of pain or joy. They see with the greater knowing the wonder of a flower and the heaviness of a feather.  It is not that the new souls do not see or feel it this way; it is that they have no depth to know of it any other way other than what it be in that very instant.  For those that do not feel, they are still learning all of it.

Judge not one better or less, or one more difficult than the other.   For the one that might be feeling the difficulty of the path sees with the intensity and beauty that is far beyond what a new soul would feel.

It is not a wave in measure, it is not a judging of higher or lower, better or worse, it is being each to their own in their moment of growth.  If you feel with intensity, or feel you struggle, it is because you have known struggles before and you are aware that something  is holding you to be in the struggle.

It is not that the new soul does not have struggles.  They do not see it, they don’t feel it and they move quickly through it. And their growth is much less, I will tell you.

But, see all beings and their path and be thankful for the path you walk on — for it is an amazing opportunity to grow.

I work no longer in a body.  I work and live and be in the spirit.  And I will tell you that the experience in the physical world is wondrous, not heavy, not a burden but a delight.

 

Will positive change ever occur in North Korea?

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SW – can the guides share a higher insight about Kim Jong-un and the people who live in North Korea? Is there a rising of awareness or desire for change within the North Korean people? Can the beings of light ever influence a situation to prevent escalation of this misuse of nuclear power?

You know about the many different levels of development of beings. Those that are very evolved having had many, many lifetimes are very  wise, very grounded, very still and not wanting to be in the middle of the fray.  New souls come in and they love attention.  They love to be in the center. They are not very good at being leaders. In fact, it is usually middle aged beings who are the best leaders.  They love politics.

This new soul, this shiny penny, is indeed a very young being and has no idea how to run a country and unfortunately is not doing a very good job at it.  These people that are controlled by this very young spirited being are filled with fear and toxic poison of words of how to control them.

There eventually will become an uprising for this young soul will get noisier and noisier until he has to be quieted.  There is a movement happening in their country with their people.  There are very old souls there as well and they will lead this.

It is a difficult time for them, a time of great learning.  I know you put into the scenario the worry of the warfare that are at the hands of this one.  It is not so much this one, this young being’s hands.  It is the beings that guard him that is a worry.  They are the ones who tell him how to be and how high to jump.

The truth is people are starving.  That that you see on your monitors and TV the pictures of all of the soldiers they join this to be fed, to have food and clothing.  The other people that you never see in towns are starving.  They eat roots, they eat dirt in order to maintain life.  You will never see children playing.  You will see them brought in and clapping, but the young ones are too weak to take part.

Your world sits watching this.  Those closer know very well the situation is of dire need.   The Southern Koreans knows of their loved ones and very much want to help them but know it is impossible to break through this huge chain of fear.  It will come from within but it may be provoked from outside.

Trust in all measure that can help.  I will tell you that the leadership of the country of China is not a negative being. They have a great understanding of what occurs here.  But they have great and ancient traditions that they fear to break and fear of loss of all structure.  But it is coming from the bottom up in this country.  The government will eventually change because their  people  will and these people know what is going on in this country of North Korea.

Do not fear my gentle ones.  Do not fear.  Trust and do all actions that you can within your realm to erase the fear which prevents love.

Being with a partner who is depressed

 

imgresMy partner is experiencing a depression and sometimes I lose patience with him and I feel that’s not being very helpful.

Would it be helpful to live with someone who is without feelings? Would it be helpful to live with one who is so stoic and perfect? No, that’s unrealistic isn’t it? You must be who you are. And in that there are many different degrees of being human — anger, frustration, these are often the basis of love. Do not worry or question these feelings. You are not destructive. There is nothing within you that destroys. Your feelings are feelings of survival, of free will. It is this that you wish to stir in the one you love. 

You wish to stir his basic need of being and you are responding in all the natural, physical forms. You have not come to this physical plane to be angelic. Although you always radiate love. You are allowed all the emotions  – fear, anger, happiness. Understand that you are often mirroring and this is what he needs.

Sometimes I feel I am being sucked down into that black hole and have to struggle to get out.

Yes, and it is in these times that you must think of your free will, your own survival instinct. This “black hole” does not exist. It is simply a vibration you sense of hopelessness.  This is a part of his existence that he must love. It is a time for him to experience the feeling of not being in control, to feel like a child, to see the weakness of the human existence and find strength in it.

Don’t ever be afraid to show your anger.  He needs to learn that anger doesn’t have to be directed inward, or at any being, but can just be. There are many things within him that are waiting to be discovered.  He feels a need to look well in the eyes of others.  He is a kind and gentle being that has much within him that needs to be let out; temper and tears and anger that he has never expressed. To a father that was never there, to a mother that worried about small things that had little to do with his life. He could never speak of his feelings. Though I am not condemning them. Know that he has every ability to come through this time. He will come through stronger and it will not be a mask; it will be real.

 

State of our world right now

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There are a very large numbers of evolved beings and a very large number that are brand new.

Of course, their needs, their wants are very far apart but not so much that it can’t be healed and a bridge can be made.   For the ancient ones must find ways to communicate to the new souls.

And some if it must be out of all flash and dance and noise makers to get their attention.

So, don’t expect it to be calm and peaceful this path.  It will be quite noisy and there will be bravado on both sides.

I know you are feeling somewhat overwhelmed by the chaos.  There is growth happening and trust in this my dear ones.

You need not fit to the words and needs of others — but be that that you are

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One calling himself “Always love” writes to say he is in a difficult and painful place and his mind is tormenting him with so many things.  He feels lost and is struggling. Do you have any words to help him understand?

Dearest dearest one, every being in your physical world is different, is unique and precious. It would not be possible for all to do and be the same, for the growth of the promises for each are separate and individual.You are a bright, shining one. You need not fit to the words and needs of others, but be that that you are. You are full of life even though you feel you are fearful, nervous, high-strung.  They say they never know what to expect from you, because you are always having a different thought or need or vision of what to be.

It would be very good for you to write. Write your rhymes, your songs, your thoughts, your beautiful pictures down. It gives you direction and helps you to channel this information through you. When a high spirit such as yourself is present in the world, often the growth and learning is not for you, but many will have promises or tasks of learning with you.  It does not mean that you must change who you be to fit their needs. You must walk and be tall within your own being.

If you keep going backwards and looking to that that was instead of going forward you will limit yourself, your growth. You are not the same being you were yesterday—or even this morning. You are different by the time the sun sets.

Growth is the vibration of your soul; it vibrates at a rate that is the sum of all your learning. Do not concentrate just on the vibration but on that that feeds it—the magic in your world that you see and touch each day. Know that you have heightened vibration, so there are things and places that will fit you better than others. It is only the wise ones who know this about themselves.

You are not lost, my dear. You’re just trying to fit into something you were, instead of who you be now. Embrace your wonder; embrace your confusion from time to time. For it is only when you are not sure that you do something you can be sure about.

The good and bad in life are all there to teach you. Fear nothing, but know and trust that you shall continue on your path.

You, my blessed one have lived many, many lifetimes. So there are many keys in your world that will remind you of past understandings. And you may even have thoughts and visions of that that was. But if you become obsessed about those things you will not do what you came to do in this life. Just know that the veil between lifetimes for you is quite thin. Or shall I say that you can see through it from time to time.

Remember that these visions, these thoughts, these memories are done. They are complete. You need not try to walk in them anymore.

You bring forward all you need to in this life. And you are a beautiful being, a very creative one. There are many that you can help by talking about how you feel and how you be–the world from your corner of the world, so to speak.

You have a purpose my dear. It may not be clear to you yet, but it is coming clearer and clearer. Bless you my child. And embrace that wonderful life you have, for it is filled with love.

If you are to embrace the wonder of you, you must release all that was

 

IMG_6866F asks about her difficult relationship with her brother. She feels he is cruel to her and has stopped trying to see him. She wants to know how to ease the pain.

My dearest one, you have such a shield up to protect yourself from barbs. But if you were to put that shield down, and if you were to think that the arrows coming at you were merely ones of love (ones coming from a place of fear and unacceptance), would you feel a need for the armor? No.

When beings send forth negativity it is because they are trying to protect themselves.  In other words, dearest one, your brother feels very unloved, unwanted, as if he was never seen by his parents.  He felt that you were loved more than him. He felt that others were always more important. He felt that he was not important, nor seen.  Sound familiar?

Yes, as you often feel in your own life, in your own path, so did your brother. He didn’t see that he was in a special position or a place of understanding. The opposite was true. In fact it was a mirror in many ways of that that you felt.  Oh yes, different circumstances perhaps, but the same attitude was placed upon him that was placed upon you.

So begin first by forgiving him and forgiving yourself. Forgiving and forgiveness is firstly the most important thing to do for yourself.  For it takes away expectations of changing or doing any act to undo that was.  Forget all that was. You do labor it so; you go back over and over to times that only cause anxiety and tension in your abdomen.

Yes, it’s true, he’s as angry at you as you are at him. But in truth it isn’t at each other though, but at perhaps the circumstances that you were present in.  If you could both just be at peace with who you are and how. You cannot undo that that was, but you can change now by the choices you make. If you change with one little way of thinking from negative to positive, you will then again love him–and yourself. And it matters not what he might say or do, if you believe that all that comes before you is because he truly loves you, you have the power do this, to change, to alter.

You are going around in a mad state right now.  Mad and angry, going over and over many issues that have truly nothing to do with you and your path. They are old perceptions of what you had, or were, or who you be.  Stop that talking. Stop that negative reel that goes on and on in your mind.

How do you stop it? By choosing to. When you hear yourself saying, “If only…”  Then go, “No. He does love me. And I love him.”   And that be it. Put nothing else to it. Hang no other negatives on it.

If you could channel all that energy that you put into worrying about this, think how much lighter you would be.  Let him carry his own burdens, hopefully to make himself peaceful. And you, dearest one, own yours. Each has a path that was united and affected by energies early on. But now you get to choose whether they still can affect you.  In order to do this, you must see this.

You go back and forth, two steps forward, three steps back.  You reach enlightenment and awareness—and then you go, “But what if, and what was and how come?”  No.  If you are to embrace the wonder of you, you must release all that was.  Thank it for creating the amazing being you are—no matter what it was—and move into the light of who you be.

And trust in yourself. For a thought can be a wish, can be a prayer.  And are your prayers worthy of you?  I believe you are a wondrous being, my dear. BE.

A guide speaks on the role of women in today’s world

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You are blessed women, blessed healers. You live in a time where women are now going to take, not over the reins because they don’t want to control the whole show, but to try to find a balance. For all the work and talk that has been done over the past hundred years not much has really been accomplished yet. (Except that you do not bind your breasts after childbirth). The greatest movement for all of you is to be seen and heard and accepted for who you be, balanced and equal.

In the greater truth of knowing the actual physical domain, the body, the female is much stronger than the male. It carries much energy to give life, to nurture. The brain, the emotional centers, the actual physical joints of the female stretch and move and heal. The male is much more fragile. It does not survive as long; it does not correct its difficulties with such ease. But more important than that, for it is not that female needs to be in a superior position, but to have a voice.

For the female often will see the need to nurture instead of to restrict, see the need to heal instead of to fight. And now when there are chances for wars more so than any other time in your world, the female, the woman’s voice, must be heard. For they do not want their children slaughtered. They do not want their loved ones’ lives destroyed by the heed and need of the very few that seem to make rules that do not fit anyone. They are in control in many places in your physical world, new souls without much depth, without understanding. It is an important time.

Bless you.

A guide speaks about renewing energies at times when they are low

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Blessed ones.  Energies are low.

Yes.  Is it just the season?

Actually the season you are in is a time of building energies. Your energies are low for all the drains you have on you.  You give thought, you give energy to these. Remember to restore your energies. Take time to be, to re-envelope the energy that is you.

What’s a good way to do that?

To immerse yourself in water, to lie in the sunshine, to walk barefoot on the ground without any manufactured things between you and the earth. What I mean is grass, sand, ground.

And understand that there are times when you  simply must just be.

Yes.  And not try to make decisions or change things, and just walk though our life easily?

If decisions are to be made at this time, just be very still and connect your heart and your mind, and then you will hear it.

A guide speaks about India

Indian women protestBatul writes:

I want to ask about my country India. There is such a mix of fortunes here, so much poverty and yet so many doing well. So many religions and yet so much misery. The poor are still suffering as they have over centuries. First there were the conquerers, monarchs, dynasties, foreign rule and now finally democracy. But the government has been corrupt. The poor become poorer and the rich become richer. There is a movement Now to fight the corrupt government. Will it succeed? Do the millions have hope for a brighter future or is this just one of those efforts which would be ambushed? Many believe that India will rise to become a great economy and rise from poverty. I had heard about the destiny or karma of nations, is India doomed for suffering?

Also I wonder about the  suppression and crimes against women that have been going on for centuries. Even in a country like ours which worships female godesses as a part of Hinduism, there are widespread crimes against women. What is the way out of this? Have women too axed their own feet by not standing up against the patriarchal norms of society? And why is a male created to be  pre-disposed to this type of nature?

The guide’s response:

No, India is not doomed.  India is growing, as its people are.  The overturn of souls that is at hand, creates more difficulties in some places than others.  But right now in your country you will see more changes than have happened in centuries.  The old ways are being confronted.

And, of course, when there is clash of two beliefs there will be stress and strain and loss of lives.  Ancient souls are amongst you right now and they seem to be in the middle of most difficult places giving up their life’s path so that others will learn and grow.

It is a beautiful place for many to learn and grow.  It is a place of riches, not only in material, but in ancient souls and also in very new souls right now.

I know you believe that men have control over women, but this is changing.  It is why it is seen much more, heard about much more and will be talked about much more because now it is not being accepted.   Not all men are bad, my dear.  There are some ancient souls that are very much trying to teach the new way.

It takes longer in your country because the natural order has been disrupted.  Many unborn female children have been destroyed and not given that possibility of being born.  It is truth that the decision of being male or female is all decided by the physical world.  It is an element of change, if you do not understand completely is present when there are large numbers and it has been disrupted.

Thus, there are more men than women.   And many of these men are very new souls without the depth, without the feeling and without the understanding of what is right and wrong.  They are just free wielding their desire to control.

Be patient.  Be clear of what it is you are about.  You don’t have to put yourself in the middle of a terrible argument.  But make your decision and your need and choices known to those around you because it does have an effect.  If you take care of your world it has an effect.

Don’t feel guilty about the fact of where you be.  Use it to the best for you are there for a reason.

Do you have any advice how we can speak our truth?

By living it.  If this is your truth then you must live it.  You must be complete within it.  This gentle soul  knows that women are equal to men.  That their need in society is equal and she must speak it and act upon it and not be submissive, to not bow down to the man but to be one with him.  Not to overpower.  It isn’t about getting control over anyone.  It is about being that that you are in your truth.

For then you radiate the beautiful light that when others come and join you with you in that light you create a wonderful bond that will only empower you to move forward. 

It is why groups of like gather together. All must be heard in these times.  All must be able to have a voice and that is the greatest fear that all of you have in not being heard.  And, so, in your anxious need to be heard, often things become angry and negative.  A negative element of chance is created which is not what you want.

It isn’t about bringing down.  It is about holding up the wonder of being present in the physical world.  This is a very complex thing and will take many conversations to understand it.

The most simple thing you can do is to be, to be that that you are.  In the land of this one who asks, many of the ancient mothers are the ones putting down women because  they are angry in themselves  at what they have received in their life’s path.   They are the ones that have allowed their unborn children to be removed.  You see, it is not only just men, it is a way of being that no longer fitting.

Bless the ground that is the land you call India. Bless the people that walk it.  But be that that you are.  And it doesn’t mean to be less than what you are.  Namaste.

 

Be the miracle that you are

The spirit guides so often speak advice to “be that that you are.” Do you have any guidance on how we can go about making that happen?

Understand that the being that you are is greater than the body that you created to present you. Understand that as soon as you decide who you are, you are not that being any longer. That you are constant change, that you are…well, a miracle.

Be the miracle that you are. Be the limitlessness. Be unlimited. Be ever-changing, ever-embracing radiance. Be the highest that you can be–that is being. When you go to make a choice ask “What does the body tell me?” And if the heart races with excitement, or if it feels heavy and sick with anxiety, then you know that your choice should be for the highest. When you go to do any action, be sure that the action is the greatest that you can do.

Be not negative in your choices—but understand that negative often creates growth. And if a negative thought comes through, do not be angry with it. But ask yourself: Why? What is the underlying growth that I need to see here? Why has this great emotion come forward (through the use of this physical body in this physical domain) to teach me? What do I bring this to my awareness for? See that being as the great teacher within you. Call it God, call it higher self—it is you. You are an amazing, brilliant fracture of energy. That knowledge, a wealth of information, that is being that that you are.

You spoke about sometimes we have a feeling of anxiety or dread about something. And there are times when we have to go through that to do, I think, something that would be for our growth.

Yes.

How can we tell when….?

Then ask the body why this is created. Do not be afraid of emotions for they are great tools to learn. In your physical world they have been given a personae. But you have manifested every one of them. Not you, in particular, my dear.

Yes, I understand.

But they have purpose. When they are overwhelming then there is a great need to stop all and seek an understanding. Your world offers many ways and forms, many truths. Seek yours. Seek that that is right. Does it mean that there should not be pain? No. There will always be pain in the physical world. It is a great tool to learn through. There is a confusion in your understanding of pain. But often it comes from the state of evolution of the being. So judge not—and be. Be.

Thank you.