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Promises and relationship with our guides

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How can Circle participants hear the words in a written form and absorb the vibrational connection of the guides and the love that is shared?   

What has occurred in these instances, in these communications where there truly is break of natural flow of what occurs in this spiritual physical realm.  You must understand that.  Is it an abnormality?  Yes, my dear, actually it is in many ways. It is not the normal accepted way of being.

What these dear beings are experiencing is truly a reuniting.  It is almost what they would experience should they be passing over.  It will not occur the same way in a text because they may not be the words or the vibration of the being (personal guides) that loves them.

But they certainly can glean a certain amount of information from these things that will give them an opening, a key, this is what you are handing them, a tool.

No, you cannot be for them the love that is surrounding them.  You hope that they will be able to find it.  If they are feeling it not, which is a very sad thing so this is what you want to do is to help them to understand that this is their haven even if they are not feeling it right at this time.  Until all beings experience the love that surrounds them, they may have taken on an attitude of reluctance to accept it, but they do feel it. That is a constant. The love never ever stops.

We do not choose entities (spirit guides) to surround other ones that would have an uncomfortable effect on them.  It is always one of harmony.

Did I hear you say that guides are chosen for other people?

It is often done when there had been a difficulty, when the being has had great difficulty in the physical world.  You’ve heard of many entities called those of the light. There is a great huge group of highly evolved beings, that actually….you might find it amusing but, it is not a conference, but there is a communication amongst us that a being needs help, that they are not getting the information.   And perhaps not to say a guide is not getting through, or isn’t helpful, perhaps the learning is still in process for those that are helping.  And then there would be one chose to go, to assist.  You might call this one an overseer.

So, before you come into a lifetime you choose your promises and your guides?

You look at what you have done. You understand the vibrational acceptance of how much you have absorbed from that life.  It is all very clear as you do not have limitations of feelings.  And you get to see perhaps how you didn’t complete a promise as maybe as much as you wanted.

Or, you may return to promises that you have already done because you have evolved.  You can look back and see that you did something in a certain existence that you thought at the end you did quite well, but since you evolved you now realize that perhaps it wasn’t learned so well.

This is the truth.  You have to know every part of your promise to be whole in it.

You must experience every human element in the physical domain

Funtastic asked for clarification on suicide.  The guides said that those who committed suicide would have to come back and experience a similar life with the same problems. 

She is wondering about many Native Americans who committed suicide to avoid inhumane treatment by Europeans.  She asks if they would have to experience this again and feels it wouldn’t be very loving.

The guide’s response:

You might wonder if  growth and understanding both sides of every scenario, the good and the bad, is always loving.  But growth is loving, my dear. Love is growth, forward movement.  Oh it transforms into many different forms so that you can use it as energy to power through things.  Love is God.  Is God love?  Yes.

Sometimes when you feel that you cannot bear the pain any longer and you feel the love in your heart, the pain can be numbed by the love.  And yes dearest, they’ve already returned.  And they went through different scenarios of course, and achieved wondrous growth. It doesn’t mean that you look upon terrible tragedy and think:  Oh they did it because they wanted to.  That isn’t what I’m saying.

I’m saying you must experience every human element in the physical domain (or your world as you would call it). You feel that pain because you have already experienced that.  But not all would, my dear.  Those that have not experienced it would look on it and feel nothing.  You have to have the vibration within you to have the feeling, compassion.  And you are so loved that you feel it.  That is not negataive; that is positive.

Yes blessed one, there is good and bad—and both are good.  Your world is a schoolroom, to learn, to grow.  It is not the end of the line.  It is not about judging.  It is about growing, experiencing, loving.  And if you can take time in the middle of the experience to be still, to understand the greater. To understand that you are giving your being growth, and then choose the highest path, you will move quickly through these things and you will not have to repeat over and over.

Bless you my child for seeking, for growing, for loving.

 

Difficulty in letting go

Waronadipose  –  Do GCE have a promise to one another?  Our interactions have been great of late but I wonder why I’ve never been able to let him go even when I’ve felt hurt by him in the past.

 

 

Of course you have a promise with him, my dear.  That is why you difficulty in letting go. So instead of thinking of this “letting go” as a severing of all ties, think of it as a bond you have with that one. For that is what you create with each individual you meet, and especially those you have promises with (or elements of learning).  You create an energy, unique and wonderful.  So see it not as ever being destroyed, but part, part of that that is.

Expectations you have difficulty with, my dear.  Feeling that one step must follow another, that’s the linear thinking of the physical world.  It doesn’t exist.  Be in the moment.  And in that moment, be exactly your truth.  Don’t hold back thoughts or wishes.  Be them.  Believe like you’ve never believed in anything before…and you will stop struggling.

When is my beloved coming into my life?

Starlight – When is my beloved coming into my life ? Will I meet them where I am living or while traveling? I call onto my path the one who holds me in the highest esteem……Any guidance would be wonderful…I know I am complete and everything I need comes from the divine but I am also here to open up fully and completely into intamacy with another beautful soul…..I know who I am and it is only for my on souls growth all of this information…… any guidance from you amazing being would be wonderful…..Blessings.

Namaste.  It is because you trust, you create a wonderful path for you and your beloved. The element of time is a frustration. Why don’t you embrace it instead?  Why don’t you believe that he is getting ready to be exactly what you need, just as you are?  Bless you my child.

A promise at hand

SWIM – Can you tell me about Wendi? Sending all my love! 

What I will tell you is that it is time to trust in your ability. When a person comes into your life or crosses your path and you have an instant feeling or reaction to them, be still in it.  Allow it.  It may be that the person was in another lifetime with you.  It may be that this person has a great promise with you in it.  But when promises are at hand very little information can be given because it is your work, my dear. 

Do not think a promise must be a huge event.  It can be a fraction of time, but have a huge vibrational quota.   Trust, my dear, for you are very wise.

Should I let the marriage go?

Hi Guides!  My name is Jennifer and I was wondering if you could help me. I have been with my husband for 24 years and this marriage feels like it is falling apart. He is hurting me and I am hurting him. At the same time I feel this incredible love for him and want to make it work. Sometimes it feels toxic and I think I should move on but I love him so much too. Should I let the marriage go?

You are a very brave being to ask such a question of something you value so dearly.  I will tell you something:  when two beings such as you and your mate have a promise together (which you two have had), you create an energy between the two of you.  This energy cannot be destroyed.   Even if you were to leave there would always be a part of you with that being. Yes, loving in the highest sense, caring in the deepest sense.

What has happened is that you have come to a time where one grows and the other doesn’t.  One seems to be in a place of no growth and the other is moving ahead quickly.  Your choice is whether to stay while the other moves forward, knowing that you cannot do the work for them, but accepting that they must have some time to do it in.  To bathe them in the light and love you have for them, not giving direction just light.  You are rich in many ways, blessed one.

Vibrationally you have the ability to love many, but you are very…picky is the best word to convey.  This being has been perfect for you until the state of no growth. Try not to change this one to be something that you have grown into, but rather to embrace the wonder of who he is.    I am not saying you will not find another who is perfect.  But I am saying you have a very big promise with this being. Take your time.  Trust. Be open to seeing this being in a new light, a light that you stand in.  Bless you my dear.

Seek to attain so that you may fulfill the path you came to do

Red Pebbles writes:   

Hi Guides, Would you give me a blunt answer? I’m in a financial jam. While money does not solve all problems it would certainly put out a few fires around me, and close some doors. Do I focus 150 percent on my business with my partners or do I start looking for other work? Can the first option come together quickly and soon, and by soon I mean imminently, or will it be slow to grow and therefore should look to other venues. Please please help. Many many many thanks.

The guide’s response:

Blessed one,  just be aware of all things around you and that that is already present within your very scope.  Many things are possible, but you know there are only some things that you have a desire to do.  All is present in your path.  You choose. All is possible.

It is interesting to me that many seek financial assistance. It is a God in your world and may I say it will never give you the truth or happiness that seeking God would bring you. It has become something to attain in order to be seen and respected–and yet it truly only carries the weight of its physical form.

Seek to attain that that creates the comfort, to feed, to house, to be safe–so that you may fulfill the path you have come to do.  You could all live in golden mansions.  You could hide in rooms that were more grand, but would you find your truth in them?  To some the truth they find is that money has only separated them from those they love.  Some will find that it is a false facade that keeps them at a distance from those they wish to impress.  And some lose themselves in such a place, restricting themselves to small areas over and over again while staying in a place of no growth.

What is it about money that you need?  You do need an exchange with all mankind.  Is it with money, or is it with your heart?  You have come to the physical world to experience.  And in each lifetime it shall change.  You will truly experience great wealth and great poverty and it is the wise one who knows where true growth lays.  Think well before you seek money for simply money.

 

A conversation about empathy and spirit growth

Blue Violet is asking if all people are born with empathy or is it learned?  She asks if it can  be shut off with negative experiences. Why do some see kindess, empathy and emotion as weak and what tends to cause these types to attack? If they truly think they are strong then is it not unnecessary and cowardly to attack and bully? Do they really enjoy their moment of “power” while acting upon their judgements? What can you say of some who stand by and watch without defending those that are being attacked.  Can you talk a little bit about these questions?  

The guide’s response:

Yes, my dear.  I know what it is she asks.  She’s tired of people being so mean spirited.  This being sees negativity all around and yet her heart is so gentle.  Empathy, compassion,  comes from growth.  The brand new soul, the brand new being, the fracture of love, has not anything but love.  And so you might think that understanding would come from there.  But in truth it comes from experiencing of negativity, of positive factions. It comes from lifetime experiences: pain, hurt.  Once you have received these you know what it feels like; once you have administered you now how shame feels.  But there is no shame until you have been on the receiving end; there is no compassion until you have felt the pain.

So yes, my dear, you feel compassion, empathy and pain because you have lived it; you have learned it.   You have stood in the place of those who have been mean spirited.  That is why you know it, and that is why you would never choose to do it again.  SO have compassion for your being—and for those who choose this route, for they are learning.

So it’s all about learning through experiencing both sides of everything?

Yes my dear, that is what the human existence is about: learning both sides and finding the balance in the middle—of everything.  That is not judgment; that is growth.

I know I’ve asked this before, but what is the purpose of all this growth?  We come in as new souls, you say, who know nothing but love, and yet we still have to go through this… 

Yes it’s what you do with that love that creates the growth– and the ultimate return to that greater love.  You see, my dear, I cannot even speak to you of what the wholeness of God or Mother Energy is, for I only know a part of it.  I know that there is only one direction: towards the light.  And that we all move in that   way.  But the understanding, the knowing of Mother Energy, Tao, God is so great that it cannot be contained.  It cannot even be imaged.  I only know that it is.  And that you and I are a part of this.

Thank you.

Bless you, my child, for asking.

See yourself on a path, somewhat familiar

Waronadipose writes:

Am I old, new, or middle aged in the spirit. My curiosity is wondering how many lives I may have lived such as what I have done as far as occupations or have I ever been a parent? I know you cant go into much detail, but I am just curious.

The guide’s response: 

Yes, my dear you have been a parent many times.  It is why you ache sometimes when you see them. That is why you are often confused with your path.  As to the age of your soul, it does not matter by years’ standard.  And vibrationally, well, let’s just say you are getting up there.  For you have a wonder of life and your understanding that nothing stays the same.  It is only with great evolution that you learn to embrace change as a constant.  Very evolved beings usually never ask how old they be, for it radiates through the very physical body that carries them and a new soul doesn’t even want to think about it.  But all are blessed where they be and you are blessed where you be.  So, see yourself as on a path again, somewhat familiar, for it is very well known that  you will be drawn to that that is easy to learn, almost as a remembering and somewhat  fearful of the unknown.

Very soon you will be drawn to a very new circumstance.  I don’t want to say you are bored, my dear, but there is  part of you is yearning for fresh air.  And when you think it in your heart, you place it on your path.  You are creating that that you will fear in a little while, but do not.   Bless you my child.  I call you child not as the understanding of the physical youth, but the child in the willingness to grow in the spiritual understanding.  Bless you.

A door will open, so be aware that change is at hand

Sharon  writes:  

Hello Guides and Ladies,

Is there a message from my Spirit Guides pertaining to my career that I’m not hearing? Is a writing career the right path for me? Thank you and I wish you many blessings.
The guide’s response:

You’re definitely a writer my dear.  But unfortunately it’s not being the focused the way you want it to be.  You ask for a  message from your guide—one moment.

(The guide leaves and another guide comes through; apparently it is Sharon’s spirit guide.)

May I speak?

Yes, do you have some words for Sharon?

He’s coming. (softly)

Did you say “He is coming?” 

Yes. The career you have put so much strength into is right.  A door will open for you.  So just be aware that a change is at hand.  Write about your passion.  Actually what you think are dreams can be realities.  All of it.  Even those things that they’ve told you are not possible are possible.  You are well.  It can be.

You’ve already seen some success in it.  Trust.