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In Remembrance of Suzanne

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This week a very dear friend of mine passed over. Suzanne was not only a friend to all of us in Circles, she was a wonderful supporter. I met her about 30 years ago when she and a friend came for a reading. She was so cute and wide eyed, I shall never forget that first meeting. It was as if we had known each other forever and we all became lifelong friends. Suzanne’s sunny, embracing smile and loving presence was at every event I have had. You may have met her taking care of the the receiving desk, welcoming guests to our events. She was not only present for public occasions but so important during private and personal ones as well. I want to thank her for being in my life and in the Circle; she made it richer and joyful. I will never forget her and I will hold her in my heart until we meet again.

All of us at Circles are in a deep state of sadness right now and we are taking a little time to heal. Whenever one loses a light in your life, remember that you once again visit all losses and need to take time to heal. Thank you all for your support and may the light of love shine on you all.

Jane

A discussion about evolution and the human race

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Can I ask about my cat who has crossed over to the spirit side. Is there growth there for her?

Yes, they grow too, on a different level. You wonder about these theories of evolution? I will talk of these things to you.

You are correct to assume you did not evolve directly from the ape. No physical being evolved from an ape. This animal is separate unto itself — as is the human being. As was Cro-Magnon, Neanderthal, all of them. They were very separate. They died out when it became very cold on your plane. They were separate. And if they had lived longer on this plane they would still be in existence manifesting and evolving on their own plane.

But different from us?

Yes. This sphere you call Earth, this physical dimension has supported a manifestation of the physical being much longer than what is understood. There have been many civilizations come to a certain degree of understanding–and then they have been diminished. It is not a time for that now upon this plane as is often thought. And in those times when there was great disaster, there was still enough to proceed with the spirit in the physical on this plane.

Is that where the stories came from, like Noah’s ark?

Yes. It is somewhat an enchanting story, but you know that it is simply a story. That there were simply enough survivors to maintain the race. The need of the physical is such that is the race had been totally eradicated, then more would have been created. But there is a sense, there is an understanding that is correct: that it evolved from a single cell. But not all the single cells were the same at the beginning.

Do you mean that there was different spirit in some than in others? 

Yes. Your cells are different from a dog’s cells. The energy is different. There are other spheres within their own evolution, different understanding of the physical that you will learn. Some of the entities you will learn with there will be the same ones you have learned with here; some will be new.

And where does it all end?  How do I explain the light? You have glimpses of it upon this plane. Glimpses, a feeling in a second of perfection. If this moment would stay forever you feel you might burst. I cannot explain because I cannot find words to explain what it is like when you reunite with Mother Energy, with God. That then you would be the Creator, to create again. There are few moments that explain.

I once heard a guide say it was like the way a raindrop feels when it reunites with the ocean.

Yes, these phrases are right. A feeling of total love–to be just love.

 

Grieving a beloved brother

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KBC – my brother’s passing.  We had such hopes for a transplant but it did not come in time. My beloved brother passed away Sept 8 in Toronto. I am struggling to make sense of his death so young when he had so much to give. Would greatly appreciate insight from the guides as how he is doing in this transition and if he can sense me sending my deep love and appreciation to him.

No, blessed one, his path was perfect.  He learned, he grew and is in a time of great learning now.  The pain of separation that you feel in the depths of your being do not exist in spirit.   He feels love, gratitude and thankfulness and a wonderful knowing of yet many things and opportunities to be.  You know that this one hears you.  You know that this one has always heard you.  And you are one of great communication.  You are doubting your communication to receive.   It is only in your grief, in your loss.

It is hard to understand that such pain in the physical world is such a rejoice in spirit.  As you await a new babe in your world we await the reunion where he dwells.  Worry not of him. Continue to speak,  continue to communicate for this one is close, not far away. I know you want to know why it didn’t work for him, but dearest, it did. Many grew, many evolved in an instance in his presence and you know that is what it is that he wanted that all beings should find their truth.  There are struggles of the physical but his spirit is pure and beautiful.

I am sorry, my dearest, you are in pain.  Each time you feel that pain, encapsulating your heart, I want you to melt it with the love that he is well and you did beautifully.  There are many things for you to do here.  Take time to grieve and with each day bring that amazing light and love into your heart knowing that you had a wonderful growth and experience with one very rare beautiful light.  Bless you my child.

Seeking a direct message about suicide

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Sayloe – I want to know with no bullshit, the absolute truth on what happens to ones soul when one commits suicide.

Well, my dear, suicide is usually the result of a person being in a place of no growth.  This can occur when a being becomes so confused and overwhelmed and sees no other avenue through a certain time or obstacle,  that it becomes a way in which to be in a life.  If the suicide was a choice because many in one’s family or friends had chosen it, it is a different outcome than if suicide is a choice simply because you are fed up with life and chose it in anger at others.

Do you see what I am trying to tell you, my dear?  There are many different outcomes.  As you know, every element of growth and learning has a vibrational quota. Suicide is a negative.  It means you must return to that place again to live and do all things you did before.  They might play out a little differently, but for sure the pain that caused the suicide will be present again.  And you must work though it and you must choose again.  There have been instances where beings have chosen it over and over and over and returned over and over and over until they saw the light, until they saw the wonder in that opportunity of growth.

Your soul passes out of the body and instantly feels regret.  It would instantly see the pain caused for not just your own being, but for others that encircle you.  Those that find you, those that had to perhaps have to clean up the mess. You feel this, the mourning, the pain, the difficulty.  You grow, hopefully.  You don’t move forward quickly because you now must understand the whole effect of that act on all lives that touched your life.  In your time of learning, in between lifetimes, it must be how your whole life affected others.  And often, even if one did wondrous things in life this ending changes that.  And it sometimes corrupts the growth that is possible for one to achieve in a lifetime.

I am not speaking of those who have been in terrible sickness and pain and chose a way out quickly after a long life.  But they too must return and allow that natural process to take place, but it is not quite as painful.  It is this and probably this time of pain, in between lives, because it is a choice that is unfinished, a promise incomplete.  You do know what I am talking about, a promise incomplete.

Bless you my child for your asking.  And if you know of someone who chooses this, talk to them, send love to them and to yourself.

Seeking insight into paranormal occurances

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Maurice – Dear friends,

Here’s my question. When I was younger, weird things happened in my house (paranormal). I always want to know who was that or those spirts who did those things?Sometimes I was ok with it; sometimes I was scared.  

Yes, my dear.  Your curiosity, your thoughts wandering and thinking are wondrous.  As to who they were and the houses you have lived in…. mostly they are beings that are trapped. It’s not so much that the house has trapped them, but they chose not to move forward in their process.  They chose to stay present in the lifetime even when their physical domain was no longer present.  You could see them and feel them and sometimes their angst and anguish was conveyed to you fearfully and sometimes not.  But trust, my dear, that nothing can harm you from spirit.

Oh, you put fears on it and the fear you put upon your body can cause you a strain. But spirits will always be of love.  They might be confused, love turned inside out, but if you approach them with love it will completely diminish any of what you might think of as negativity, but in truth is only confusion.

Yes, Maurice, you are very intuitive.  You can see and hear other dimensions.  It is very, very easy for you to do it.  You put many different slants on it just for your own comfort and for testing if other people are willing to hear. You live in a time where it is acceptable now.  Do not fear.  You can speak of your evolution.

Asking about a loved one who has passed

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A dear friend passed some time ago.  How is he doing?

Well, he’ still kicking around.  He didn’t want much to go.  He accepted it, but he is still very much tied to the physical world as you probably already know.  You are very intuitive you know dear.  And you’ve heard things, but you don’t really want to hear them.  You’d like him to not be talking to you.   It is unfinished.  Will he be able to?  Yes, at other times.  I am sorry to say it is not always very peaceful and wonderful when they first go.  Sometimes there are still things  tying them to the physical world.  And they need to finish that work, just as all of you do.  It can be healed. But you don’t need to bear the burden of it if it makes you feel uncomfortable.  Sometimes the feelings are so strong it can be a little upsetting.  You’ve had a lot of pain in your life, dearest one.   There is so much that you have come to do and give to others. You’ve been somewhat hiding, but you will be alright.  Bless you darling.

A time of vibrational clearing

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Can you talk to us about when we pass over and leave our bodies, what is it like?

Well, according to how you have a belief system there are certain expectations that are first met.  If you’ve decided that there is nothing to greet you at all, then there will be a period of quite quiet and sometimes a little bit of confusion.  If you feel that a guardian angel will greet you, then so be it, they will be there.  A certain amount of time is spent in just the belief of that conscious mind releasing and allowing it to pass through to transform into the energy field that you be, leaving behind the physical body that you created.

Once through you pass through that time you will be received by all the blessed beings that surround you, whether it be the guardians or certain loved ones (they are often still around and about) to greet you, to help you. Then you proceed to that that you need, a place in which you dwell in a time of vibrational clearing is best way to say it.  You see everything that you have done and everything you attempted through your free will and your choices.  Your vibration shifts to a certain degree, or perhaps not enough and you decide: Oh I had better redo do that one a bit more. You have to see the effect of your entire lifetime before you leave that place.

I know you like names for things, but there isn’t really a name for this part of the development.  You could even say it is a place of waiting and seeing how all of your actions affect your being or others before you can decide to move forward to another life.  It is just a place of learning.  It is not exactly sitting around with wings or anything, but it is certainly peaceful.  I suppose if you really wanted wings they would let you have them there.  I would think they would be somewhat uncomfortable myself, but to each his own.  We had one that so desired wings.  Oh yes, there have been a few.

Information for a grieving mother

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 J:

My daughter passed away about a year and a half ago.  I would like to know why she chose to pass away at that particular time.

Guide:

This blessed being, dearest one, was not going to have your typical long path.  There were other opportunities, as you very well know, when this one could have chosen to leave, but did not.  This opportunity, though you may think was not for the right one,  but she had crossed over and seen the great peace and she had been through quite a bit of turmoil, even though you think things were starting to settle down and  become much more happy in her life. She felt very, very confined and wanted to move forward quickly with some very amazing things.

Dearest one, it might be difficult for you to understand, but this being has not left you and is very, very close to you.  She is working with you and will more so in time when you are not so tender and when it is not so difficult for you.  You are a very intuitive being and you know that you can take on that that is ahead of you.  Bless you my child.

A conversation about loved ones passing over

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S  –  About a year and a half ago I had an experience when I was meditating and this woman came up to me and told me she was proud of me and it was really emotional for me as I just lost my grandma.  I don’t know who that was but there was also a scary man and I told him to go away.  There was this feeling where I just rushed back into my body and I couldn’t stop crying.

The guide’s response:

You experienced the entities or guides of love that are with you.  This scary one wasn’t necessarily scary but reminded you of a lifetime in which you had a great deal of fear, nothing that you need fear now.  But what you found was that amazing place of love–an unconditional acceptance of who you be.  That is why you teared up my darling, from being reunited with the great love that is there for you.  For in spirit, there is great love and you are quite an amazing being.  And know that your grandma, she’ll be fine.

It is often hard when the ones we love leave.  We hear they are with us but it doesn’t feel like that.

Yes.  When you dwell in bodies it often is not so receptive of feeling the energy of another one.  But most people do experience that visit every now and then from a loved one.   They will say it is just a touch, a smell, or a feeling that they were close.  And it is true.

You see, you spend time some time in-between before you begin again. They are not in my dimension, but they are still very much in your dimension.  A time to see every action of your life and how it affected others.  To understand did you do it in the right way?  Was it acceptable for who you be.  Then you decide to return and do it again.  And, sometimes, you just need to stay close to the loved ones.  Sometimes you just need to say that you are still there with them. And some beings have so desires to see children grow or babies develop and stay very, very close for a very long time.

But the choice is truly yours as to how long you will stay in that place before you return.  You don’t have to understand anything about this returning to a lifetime over and over again.  I want you to know that you are a continuum each of you blessed beings, a light that returns into a body that you create to learn to grow.  This amazing place you dwell in is a great classroom of learning, every choice, every moment is yours to take to the highest moment that you can do.

Moving past the shock of losing someone dear

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Hi, my name is Juliana, I’m 24 years old  and I’m from Brazil. I lost a cousin in 2004 in a car accident on the day of her wedding. It was a total tragedy, and even though she probably didn’t know it, she was someone I looked up to quite often. She was amazing and full of life, and lightened up every room she walked into. She made me someone better and for that I’m so very grateful. I would like to know if she has anything she would like to tell me, some kind of advice or guidance. and I would like her to know that every time I play her song in the piano, I play it for her! I know she is very special and evolved, and thats why she left us so early, when she was just 23.

 

The guide responds:

Dearest one, there is no set time amount for the shock of losing one so dear to you.  It opened many parts of your being and in some ways made you very afraid.  This blessed being had this complete.  It is hard to understand that it was complete. You need to understand is that it is love you need.  The body might be relieved of its place in the physical world but the spirit continues.

This blessed being is still close and can hear all words that you direct to her.  So speak your love, release your loss, your pain and know that this one continues to grow and evolve, even though the body is no longer needed.  The terrible trauma and shock to you created a great difficulty for you. And you have never truly addressed your need to heal.  Bless your being my child.

As to messages, you know the message from this one would be to laugh, to dance, to find joy there for you, to continue on your path where you have many things yet to do. There will be a time again when you will rejoice, but not for a long time yet.  But know that this one grows. Also, understand the more you stay in that place of trauma and pain that happened years ago, you are holding that spirit of Juliana to that place.

You see, when one dwells in the time of great learning which is the time between lives, or what you might think of as after death, or transformation, one sees and understands the whole of one’s life or path.  Where there is trauma, or a time of deep sadness, it holds the person to their prison until love and light is replaced by the terrible trauma. So embrace the love that this one brought and taught.

Embrace the love of who you are and how you felt for this one.  Heal yourself and know that there is much at hand for you and that one does.  Fear not, blessed child, for there is great happiness and joy for you.