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She can offer many things but he must be the one to choose

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 Mike writes:

My mother asked me to submit a question about my dad.He has been struggling with intermittent shortness of breath the past few weeks- and he generally seems to be deteriorating a bit as a result. He is in the process of undergoing tests for both heart and lung functions but has not been too receptive to going to EMERG when having difficulties. Do the guides have any sense of what is going on and how to best help him?

The guide’s response:

The entities or guides that surround this one know very well what he is doing. He is stubborn, he is fearful. He wants for there not to be any fuss about him.  There is some congestion, some failure of the heart muscle, some fluid in the lungs causing some exhaustion. It’s important to eat a beautiful healthy diet with very little meat but a lot of vegetable and broth.

Ubiquinol is a very good thing; it strengthens the mitochondria, the very cells of the heart muscle. It is a substance that is very good at developing amino acids in the body. It’s something he can surely find. Your world calls it Q-10. It’s one and the same.

He needs to get exercise but not to worry too much about it. He needs to move and be happy. And if he chooses not to have too many tests, then so be it.  He is the one that knows what his body is doing. He is the one who will choose—its strength and its weakness.

It is hard for her to understand this for she has been very much taking care of this one for a long time. And her fear is not helping anything. Tell her to trust that he knows what is right for himself—and that he has a choice.

She can offer many things but he must be the one to choose it out of free will. That’s the only way it will actually help him. If he chooses out of worry for her or for others, it might help them, but not him. And tell her just simply to be. For she is a very wondrous being.

Addressing pain and fatigue in the arms

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BL is asking about the pain in her arms. She is so fatigued and it hurts to move her arms. She doesn’t understand why it happened or how she can rid herself of the pain. She is wondering about diet or energy work or massage. She doesn’t know if it’s a muscle or a joint or a bone issue. She is wondering if sleep or lack of it is a problem.  She would be grateful for anything that you can recommend or help her with.  

Well, there is a narrowing  in the bones of the neck that she needs to address.  This will help a great deal.   As well as the tissues of the cords on either side of the spine of the neck. The nerve that goes through this part, through this spine, the attachments are very much irritated and  is swollen. That is the sheath that surrounds the nerves is very swollen and irritated.

Your science now would call it a fibromyalgia type of ailment.  I am not calling it that.   I am saying it is an inflammation, but mostly it is caused by this narrowing in the spine.   So, it is very important to develop the muscles in the spine, in the shoulders and the neck as that will help support it.

Rest is ultimately very important for my darling.  She needs to get deep rest and that is almost impossible because she doesn’t have great support for her neck.  It is best that she use a cervical support while sleeping.   Try to get as much sleep as possible.   Things that can help for my dearest one, of course would be to stop worrying but that is almost impossible.

So, I would say that she should take magnesium and calcium and soothing things.   She should not irritate it so much so whatever she should do should be calm and soothing such as lovely warm baths with some nice magnesium salts in there would be very soothing for her.  She should drink lots of water and relax and laugh.  Touch must be very gentle around the neck and upper arm.

(Chuckling)  I know she does some crazy exercising and I never could understand that thing.  She should try to get exercise in the most subtle calm way.  Running increases the circulation in the blood flow to these parts which is partly restricted because of this small area in which these blood vessels and nerves are passing through the spine.  So, circulation helps…but really it is only hindering right now.   It would be very much better for her to have soothing things such as lovely soft comforting comforting cushions to lie on.  She doesn’t have to prove anything to anybody.  Tell her that she could just relax and enjoy many things, many things.

The narrowing was caused by something?

No, no.  If she truly looks she will see that there have been arthritic neck in many of her ancestors.  Sometimes those things happen.  It can calm down and be fine.  She needs to relax and get her nerves under control, soothing.

Do not take anti-inflammatories as there are much more soothing ways to reduce inflammation in the body then these drugs that really cause irritation in the internal parts.  Really wonderful distilled water, greens is very good and sprouted seeds.  And the best thing for anti-inflammatory is laughter.

And heavens, no, do not get up before. 7am.    If my girl should get some sleep she should stay in bed.  She should not worry about rules and regulations.  Unfortunately, my girl is very uncomfortable.  When she feels like rising she should.  So, if she falls into a deep sleep do not set a clock to wake up.  Not everyone needs to be bouncing out of bed and achieving miraculous things all of the time.  Some people just need to lie in bed and sleep.  I have enjoyed this.

A guide speaks about what is remembered from the physical world

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We were wondering about  what the guides remember of their life in our world and what their experience is now.  So we asked for a guide to talk to us about this.  A very clear presence came through and spoke these words.

 

You asked “do we remember” and I wish to speak to this.  When one is in the place or dimension where I be now, my evolution, my purpose, is to grow through your growth—the being that I am assisting, or perhaps many beings.

Because of the great awareness I may have now, I do not have the lower vibration experience of the physical world; it is simply for the learning of the beginning of the evolution.   Even old, well-evolved beings are what we would call “new”—just not brand new.  But I am still very familiar with the wonders of your world.

You get to create that that you need.  I do not get to create, I have and I must be, now. Using very seldom the word “I” for it is not needed when in spirit for I am one with many.  I am going to use it now to help you understand what it is that I remember.

We are still separate in our energies but we are one in consciousness. We don’t have bodies but we vibrate, moving with some space between us in amongst each other. And so for me the things that I carry still within my vibrational energy are the noises, sound of the tide, sounds of birds, laughter’s most beautiful sound.  It has a vibrational up and down energy that has often been reflected to my very energy.

I also recall with great love the simple passing of time, which you call find quite frustrating.  Because in that allows the amazing thing—growth, the expansion of a being.

The dimension I dwell in, it’s not stagnant but it has no element of time.  You get seasons, you get snow, you get rain. No, I do not dwell in darkness; it is light, it is beautiful. But it is not heavy so it has not the velvet touch. It has not the depth and deepness of water or the lightness and gentleness of wind. But I still remember them. And I thank you for asking.

On promises with siblings and mothers

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I was thinking about the sibling relationship and wondering why they are so often difficult ones.

Often times they are promises between the two. So they are tasks of learning and growth. And always they are different. You do not have the same promises with one as with another sibling.

I’ve heard that the position in the family can be pivotal in how people go through their life.

It’s true, of course, that position in the family would affect one. It’s part of that attitude or energy. If there are already a multitude of beings present in the family that you arrive in, you are going to have a completely different outlook as you evolve.  But if you are the first one to step upon the scene and you are anointed   ability to make or unmake the lives of the parents, what a different responsibility that is!

And perhaps if you slipped in to the middle, and you knew that you weren’t the most exceptional in the first position, nor do you carry the weight of the baby being the most adored, perhaps in the middle you might be the one who sees how to make balance, how to go under the radar, how to figure out the pluses and the negatives of the family much more quickly than anyone else.

It is true, the position has a lot to do with it but mostly, the most important thing is the issues and the energy and the promises that you have come in to grow and learn. Many of them are not materialized until almost adulthood. That’s why you will see the greatest fights among siblings and families when you are an adult. It wont’ be when you are children.  For then you are still very immersed in that energy or attitude of the parents and the family vibration.

As soon as your head comes above the water, you identify yourself with who you be. You are a separate entity and you will take up arms against one that has been bothering you for a long time.

Great learning for us.

Yes, but often times many of these promises are so close to the heart. The emotions are the ones that carry the growth. And it’s hard to be in your head and separate from the issues and emotions to see clearly what is happening–that they simply need love, and to be seen and heard.

The most important being in your life from the early beginning until almost adulthood is the mother. She gives you life and nurturing. Well, at least should,  But you will see many where it wasn’t that way and it causes many distortions, not necessarily anything to do with the promises at hand. For often the promises with the mother are life-and-death ones. They are very clear and offer amazing growth, but not ones that you work out with great difficulty.

Except in some cases where there is failure to grow forward. That is the greatest frustration between mother and child—failure to grow. It can be on the mother’s part. It doesn’t necessarily be the child’s growth.Bless you all for your great love.

If you are to embrace the wonder of you, you must release all that was

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IMG_6866F asks about her difficult relationship with her brother. She feels he is cruel to her and has stopped trying to see him. She wants to know how to ease the pain.

My dearest one, you have such a shield up to protect yourself from barbs. But if you were to put that shield down, and if you were to think that the arrows coming at you were merely ones of love (ones coming from a place of fear and unacceptance), would you feel a need for the armor? No.

When beings send forth negativity it is because they are trying to protect themselves.  In other words, dearest one, your brother feels very unloved, unwanted, as if he was never seen by his parents.  He felt that you were loved more than him. He felt that others were always more important. He felt that he was not important, nor seen.  Sound familiar?

Yes, as you often feel in your own life, in your own path, so did your brother. He didn’t see that he was in a special position or a place of understanding. The opposite was true. In fact it was a mirror in many ways of that that you felt.  Oh yes, different circumstances perhaps, but the same attitude was placed upon him that was placed upon you.

So begin first by forgiving him and forgiving yourself. Forgiving and forgiveness is firstly the most important thing to do for yourself.  For it takes away expectations of changing or doing any act to undo that was.  Forget all that was. You do labor it so; you go back over and over to times that only cause anxiety and tension in your abdomen.

Yes, it’s true, he’s as angry at you as you are at him. But in truth it isn’t at each other though, but at perhaps the circumstances that you were present in.  If you could both just be at peace with who you are and how. You cannot undo that that was, but you can change now by the choices you make. If you change with one little way of thinking from negative to positive, you will then again love him–and yourself. And it matters not what he might say or do, if you believe that all that comes before you is because he truly loves you, you have the power do this, to change, to alter.

You are going around in a mad state right now.  Mad and angry, going over and over many issues that have truly nothing to do with you and your path. They are old perceptions of what you had, or were, or who you be.  Stop that talking. Stop that negative reel that goes on and on in your mind.

How do you stop it? By choosing to. When you hear yourself saying, “If only…”  Then go, “No. He does love me. And I love him.”   And that be it. Put nothing else to it. Hang no other negatives on it.

If you could channel all that energy that you put into worrying about this, think how much lighter you would be.  Let him carry his own burdens, hopefully to make himself peaceful. And you, dearest one, own yours. Each has a path that was united and affected by energies early on. But now you get to choose whether they still can affect you.  In order to do this, you must see this.

You go back and forth, two steps forward, three steps back.  You reach enlightenment and awareness—and then you go, “But what if, and what was and how come?”  No.  If you are to embrace the wonder of you, you must release all that was.  Thank it for creating the amazing being you are—no matter what it was—and move into the light of who you be.

And trust in yourself. For a thought can be a wish, can be a prayer.  And are your prayers worthy of you?  I believe you are a wondrous being, my dear. BE.

A guide speaks on the role of women in today’s world

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You are blessed women, blessed healers. You live in a time where women are now going to take, not over the reins because they don’t want to control the whole show, but to try to find a balance. For all the work and talk that has been done over the past hundred years not much has really been accomplished yet. (Except that you do not bind your breasts after childbirth). The greatest movement for all of you is to be seen and heard and accepted for who you be, balanced and equal.

In the greater truth of knowing the actual physical domain, the body, the female is much stronger than the male. It carries much energy to give life, to nurture. The brain, the emotional centers, the actual physical joints of the female stretch and move and heal. The male is much more fragile. It does not survive as long; it does not correct its difficulties with such ease. But more important than that, for it is not that female needs to be in a superior position, but to have a voice.

For the female often will see the need to nurture instead of to restrict, see the need to heal instead of to fight. And now when there are chances for wars more so than any other time in your world, the female, the woman’s voice, must be heard. For they do not want their children slaughtered. They do not want their loved ones’ lives destroyed by the heed and need of the very few that seem to make rules that do not fit anyone. They are in control in many places in your physical world, new souls without much depth, without understanding. It is an important time.

Bless you.

Advice for getting better sleep at night

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imgresDo you have any advice about how I might get better sleep at night?

You need to rise before 7:00 in the morning. Your internal clock needs very much to stretch and move before 7:00. You need to make sure the ritual of eating is properly spaced so that your insulin levels do not become unbalanced.  You need to start dimming the lights and the thoughts and the noises around you a good hour before going to bed. When you lie upon your bed you must first get very cool and you will sleep soundly. If you awaken you must rise, go bare of foot, step outside, become very very cool, stretching and bending. Then return to the bed and lie down and sleep.

You are a child that needs ritual and structure; you always have. You are most comforted when you know exactly the time, the position, the place, how it will be to eat, to rest, to sleep. You do not like surprises but you do understand they exist.

There is nothing wrong with your being. It is a very healthy being.

 

Viruses and growth in the physical world

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We were talking about viruses earlier and we were wondering if they’re getting stronger, if they are starting to take control. We had a theory that they might be from outer space. Can you talk about that?

You are from outer space. You are in outer space. You are all of space and in the midst of it.   (laughter)

You want to know if they were meant to be or if they were an accident.  Did they just happen upon this plane?  There had to be an element of chance in your world:  thus viruses.  They do not respond to the methods of this world. They are not of the same cell structure of this world. They are not circles within circles (as I heard you speaking about).

What do they do? They create growth; believe it or not. They cause destruction of some things and the birth of other things. And there will be a time when you will super-power them and use them. There are so many things at the very fingertips of growth now in your world.

As you know, you are at the edge, the precipice of great growth.  And you are all afraid it’s going to be lost in the abyss by these new souls who are plundering their way through, and not taking anything seriously and missing, and not reading and not taking advantage of….   Don’t be so sure. They have their own path. And hopefully if everything goes well in the passing of the next, oh, about fifteen years… quite well.

Your medical system is going to do a complete circle. It is going to go back to its beginnings but it is going to bring with it a new approach. You’re going to use powerful different ways to cure different things. So of course you’re going to have something new to come up with, to challenge.  It’s like, oh how can I explain this? Like the head is too big for the body so the little disease was created to cure, then “whump”…it’s going to fall over and crash because this disease is cured. So now what do we do? You’re going to have to come up with something else.

There always will be something.

Yes, circles within circles. Back again you’ll come. But this time you’ll be a little different, you’ll be a little wiser.  Just like you in your lifetimes. Each time you come through you’re a little bit different, a little bit wiser. In some areas maybe a little bit dumber. But most of the time pretty good.

Yes, maybe some of us have to go around a few times.

Yes, you have to go around that merry-go-round a few times. A few times just to take in the view, a few times just for a good laugh. And then you get serious about it and you think: Ah, I don’t want to be on this merry-go-round every time so let’s do some work. You wise up eventually. Yes. I think it is most magnificent. Most magnificent.

A conversation about electronic devices and human consciousness

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The connection time that we humans are engaged with computers and cell phones, is this enhancing learning and consciousness expanding? I use a computer for work and a limited amount of time in my volunteer work, but I’m realizing it is not a preference of communication for me personally. Would human connection improve if we spoke face to face instead of the electronic medium?

In your physical domain anything can be used in a positive or a negative way.  Anything, whether it be a means of energy that is generated using communication, or if it is simple as information itself, can be positive or negative. You see, in your world you must have both poles to be, to find the balance. There must be both sides of everything. So worry not of those that use these things to the extent that they do not grow. Does it expand the mind? Does it expand the consciousness of the being? Consciousness is. It cannot expand any more than it is.  Whether you tap into it or not is entirely up to the individual, where they be in their rate of growth. One need never touch a computer to be fully conscious in the understanding of spirit. The North American concept of evolution right now is a very scientific structured, hard-drive place.  In the understanding of many other parts of your sphere consciousness plays a much more important role. It is part of each being and taught in many different ways. Not only through religious understandings but also in the very concept of being–being on the earth, being fed and supported by it. This consciousness is not taught in your North American understanding. So do not worry. All beings are placed where they need to be for their growth and will find what they need. Or choose to look the other way and find nothing and return again and again in a cycle of repetition until eventually it clicks.

Every organization, group, culture, community has set boards and decided that this is good and this is bad, when both are necessary to be. So fight not against the fast-moving pace of these things. Chose what is right for you and let the others pass.  It is true that face-to-face is a true way of knowing another entity. If you have an entire group of new souls they will create a new way of learning, a new history. The old will not fit.  You have heard of this over and over again.  And this that you see as a negative will have negative and positive growth to it. But it will be their means in which they work.

You have heard the story of losing the small toe on the foot? Well there is loss to the evolution of man. And you’ll see it not too distant from now.  But that is exactly how it is to be.  It is like the question: did you walk with dinosaurs? You will have a time when you ask: did we have five toes? Did we actually use a voice to speak or did we have energy-generated voice? When mankind first presented in this physical domain, when they first reached the realization that they had vocal cords, they sang. They sang songs and the songs turned to communication, the communication turned to language, language to words. Be not afraid of the steps this world takes. Each is important in the time in which you be present. Be present in your day.  Worry not of that that will be but of what you be.  Bless you my child for asking.

Someone is trying to make robots that speak for themselves.  Why would that be something that people would want to work towards.

Well, the belief is that if you could create a creature that you would thus have a voice.  It didn’t work a long time ago and it won’t work now.  It cannot be created a machine to have thinking concepts as in the consciousness of man. For no other creature in your physical world has the same consciousness.  In time you will see clones created that will be parrots. They will parrot that that is almost identical, but they will not be able to think forward. They can only think of that that is.

Sounds scary.

It isn’t scary.  What will be found is that mankind will chase faster and faster and faster, until they have to be still. And then consciousness will fill their beings. And they will realize that they are never separate from this energy—Mother Energy, God, Tao, whatever you wish to call it, Heaven. You are but a small part–working, growing, stretching, changing, moving, but a breath a way from me. I no longer stretch that way. I seek to help you. And there are those that seek to help me. I have one vision, and it’s more in your world than it is in the vision forward that I shall yet see and be one with.

Be not afraid of change, newness. You are going to see other beings come to your world. And you will instantly recognize them for they will have the similar energy. No, not their form, not their voice, but they will be powered by the same energy that powers you and us.  To that we all reach to be one with again. I do not understand the whole concept of God. It moves, it is a he, it is a she; it is good, never evil.  This sometimes must create chaos, which might be seen in your world as negative or bad—in the form of a robot. A slave of any form is never acceptable in the understanding of God.

Did I understand you that there will be beings coming to earth?

They have already.

Really. But are they known?

They are known in the now, in the time in which they are present. Your linear time is quite different from theirs. They have been present. Why would they not? They have been drawn to the light that is quite brilliant.  They are part of the dimensions that you are part of. You see it in the linear, solid form, the planet. It is dimensions, vibrations, that are all present. Some will learn how to break through that dimension and be present in your world.  Fear it not.

Sounds like amazing times.

The creation of the physical world is amazing, miraculous, wondrous. You have at your very fingertips the power of God, to do and be what you need.  You will know in time what it is all about. Be in peace.

 

 

 

 

Love between a mother and a son

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IMG_2926-1Sable writes: 

My son has had problems for the past 14 years.  I have always been there for him supporting him, providing shelter, listening to him, sending money.  I am not sure if the way I have been supporting him has been in his best interest.  I love him very much.  He has a beautiful heart, and is a gentle soul.  But he keeps putting himself in situations, where he calls me to bail him out.  But now, I am very tired of the drama, and don’t want to hear it anymore.  And I’ve also asked him not to ask me for money anymore.  And as I explained to him, I am on a limited income and am not in a position to send him money. But the boundary keeps sliding.  The last time we spoke, he asked me for money, and I lost it.  I raged, cried and screamed at him.  The wolverine in me appeared.  And I did send him money.  Again, I  gave in. Afterwards, I felt heartbroken and beat up.  It’s not like me to react the way I did, and I hated myself for it.  How can I protect myself and my heart?  How can I support him that would be in his best interest, and to show him that he needs to take responsibility for his life.  I only want the best for him.

The guide’s response:

Dearest one,

Never doubt the love you have for your child.  Never doubt that you have tried all that you consciously understood how to be a mother. It is not that I ask you to reexamine with a microscope, but I want you to look at your path—a blessed being of light. It was as if for the first time you had ever experienced love, in a way you had never known it before. It was love for you and love for your child.  And the love completed and fulfilled you in so many ways. It filled all the corners and the emptiness that you had experienced in your life. It made you feel that you had a place and a purpose, a radiant path for the two of you to walk.

Dearest one, the most powerful job or place to be in the physical world is to be a mother, to give life, to nurture, to protect. Sometimes this becomes confused with the needs of the self, you, present, not the mother. Blessed one, in many ways you have needed this child to be there for you. And you have created a dependency for you felt very much the need to have this love in your life.

Now you see that this love is overwhelming, and you know that there must be a teaching to strengthen this one so that he may stand strong, independent, trusting in self.

Well, you taught him to trust in you, that you would always be there. And you have been, yes, even financially.  Whenever in trouble you taught him that you would be there. And you are, my dear.  So be not angry with this situation, but understand why it is.

And now, you both need to go back to school and learn how to be mother and child, strong and independent, loving and supporting, without need, but with the greatest desire that each should grow and be.

You must own that that you have done. You must speak openly to him and you must say that you have created this, out of love for him. But that you now see that this has not helped him be strong. But in fact you believe that he is week and he must change this and believe that he is strong.  Trust that the way will be found by him.

The conversation, security, back and forth, is not a means of gutting and ending. You will always be this one’s mother, a guiding light. You can do this without it being a burden on you, but in fact an amazing gift to you. To understand that you have places within your being that are empty, and you need to fulfill them–not with things or stuff or money, but with love of self. Not in need, not “need” if you understand what I mean, but with love, gentle pure sweet love of self. And love for your child.  This can be. You need to stop in place and accept and be—-one to each other—in the most uncomplicated way.

Both will try to complicate the message and the means by which you achieve it. If you truly both stop and just simply be together with gentle words of love, support.  Conversation can give greater keys for growth than money ever could.

As to your burdening yourself with your thoughts and your mind, forgive yourself, love yourself. Look upon your child as a bright light, a wonderful gift, and you shall proceed in this.  Bless you, my dear.